Hi there, I’m Jillian.
I’m a Spiritual Educator, Coach, and YouTuber who explains how this reincarnation thing really works - and how to make the most of this incarnation. Then I help you actually do something with it — through frameworks, tools, and working together — so you can end this life saying "Nailed it."
The best way to describe it? Life is like a video game. You are the player, the challenges are the game play, and you are here on a quest to evolve your soul.
So. Let’s stop repeating the same lessons and start playing this life on purpose.
Quick Facts About Me:
Almost 35 years studying reincarnation and world religions — not a hobby, an actual field of study I've been running my own life on this whole time.
Started my YouTube channel in 2023, teaching what I'd already been quietly building for decades.
Became a certified life coach in 2011 and a trained energy healer (Reiki, Barbara Brennan, Seattle Psychic Awakenings). After a decade in HR, I returned to coaching & spiritual work in 2024.
I coach through dedicated paths, do past-life and soul-purpose tarot readings, and I'm always building new tools to help you actually work your own path.
I'm a Green Soul heading into Blue, and a Leader/Sage/Performer soul type. Still learning. Still dealing with the Green Soul dramas.
My Reincarnation Is a Game series is the backbone of my whole approach — taking esoteric spirituality concepts and making them usable in real life.
I live in Portland, Oregon. I love my bike and embrace the weird like a good Portlander, and I'm still finding corners of this state I haven't seen yet. (Travel is my second calling).
I have two cats I adore — Leia and Kylo. Leia's brother was Luke. I think you can see the pattern...
The Short Version
At 15, a book about past-life regression shaped my entire life. I learned that we’re here on Earth to learn lessons through the challenges we face, and that there is a plan and a structure underneath all of it.
I spent the next few decades going deep on life: acting, peace and reconciliation, psychology, world religions, energy healing, life coaching, and even a shamanic ceremony in the Peruvian Amazon that I still haven't fully recovered from (in a good way). Then, in true my-soul-has-a-sense-of-humor fashion, I spent a decade climbing the corporate HR ladder — which turned out to be exactly the operational grounding this work needed.
Today I teach on YouTube, coach one-on-one, do energy work, and share tools, resources and frameworks to help you make the most of this incarnation: learn the lessons you are here to learn, overcome your challenges in front of you, and remember that you are actually a bright, beautiful, kick-ass being.
How I Actually Live This
Anyone can tell you reincarnation is real. What I can show you is what it looks like to actually run your life on it for thirty-five years.
Where the game framework came from. I've been analyzing my own dreams since I was a teenager — long before my psychology degree gave me the formal vocabulary for it. One dream stuck with me: I was inside a video game. When I sat down and worked through what it meant, I could clearly see that it was my own mind handing me the exact metaphor I needed — player, levels, objectives — for what life already was. It helped that I had the perfect training for it: a big brother who was an early computer fiend (Atari! Commodore 64!) and a D&D dungeon master — I'm looking at you, character sheets — who gifted me my own Nintendo at 13. I grew up on Mario Brothers, Ultima Underworld, even Below the Root if you want to go way back. So when my dream handed me a game as the metaphor for life, it wasn't speaking a language I knew well, and just made sense when you looked at life as a whole.
The actual practice. When things get dark — and they have, more than once — I ask the same question every time: what am I supposed to be learning here? Not "why is this happening to me." What is this testing, and what do I need to do to move forward? I listen deeply to my inner knowing — my soul — to understand why this experience is showing up now, and then I take action on it. That single reframe unlocks movement when nothing else does. Layer in the tools from my life coach training and the energy healing I've sharpened over fifteen years, and you have my whole practice — one I tested on my own life for years before I ever brought it to a client.
What it's added up to. I've tried to actually listen when my soul pulled somewhere unexpected — leaving for Ireland with no safety net, walking away from acting when the knowing hit, stepping out of a stable corporate career to do this instead. Not every pull made sense at the time. But because I kept listening, I've lived a life I already know I'll be proud of when it's over. That's not a personality trait. That's the framework, working.
My Story in a Nutshell
The full timeline — Boston, Ireland, Peru, Nike, all of it — lives here if you want it. The short arc:
A hard childhood had me searching early. By 13 I was dealing with real depression and hunting for anything that might explain why life was so hard — paganism, near-conversion to Greek Orthodoxy, everything metaphysical I could find. At 15, Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian Weiss handed me the framework I'd been looking for: life is about the lessons we're here to learn, coming back again and again until we graduate from Earth School.
I followed the pull wherever it went, even when it looked like a wrong turn. To Boston to study acting — until a knowing hit me that it wasn't my path (and the Universe backed it up by cutting me from the program). To Ireland with no safety net, for the happiest stretch of my life. To Peru, shamanism, and an Ayahuasca ceremony. 10/10 spiritual experience, 2/10 physical one (you can watch my video on why those ratings).
I got my Psychology degree, got certified as a life coach in 2011, trained as an energy healer, and hung out my shingle. Then my soul tapped me on the shoulder: "Girl, you've got some lessons to learn before you're ready for this." So I did the thing that surprised everyone, including me — a decade in HR at places like Nike, learning how to lead, build systems, and make things that last.
In 2024, the Universe arranged a layoff right when I'd been wanting to leave. The door reopened. I came back to this work fully — and when a video I made about how reincarnation actually works took off beyond anything I'd posted before, I cried, and finally accepted what I'd been circling for years: reincarnation is at the heart of everything I do.